When you believe that the person
you just dumped would be better off dead or living a miserable life, it might
be difficult to watch them flourishing in life. Some of Duke's observations are
insightful.
This is a situation that occurs frequently.
Many intentionally stay in relationships that do not advance their well-being
for a long time in the vain hope that things would turn around. Such
relationships restrict their potential and hinder their creativity, preventing
them from advancing in their academic, professional, social, or emotional life,
among other areas. It is never easy to see how constrictive these relationships
are when one is still operating under the idea of love.
One must take a break from a relationship in
order to realize their greatest potential. It is usually necessary to make a
number of sacrifices in order for the relationship to succeed. Finding someone
with whom you can easily connect is never simple. We encounter couples who are
frequently marching and mismatched. People are compelled to give up their
passions, hobbies, or talent for the dubious purpose of compatibility.
Regrettably, they eventually come to the conclusion that their sacrifice was
not worthwhile.
One must leave the relationship when it comes
to a screeching halt. The post-breakup feelings might be intense if the
relationship was violent. It's difficult to forgive when entire trust has been
completely betrayed. You wish to ship your ex to Siberia, blindfold him or her,
tie his or her arms and feet, and leave them there to freeze to death. The
fictitious penalty becomes more severe the more profound the discrepancies. You
definitely don't want to see your ex-partner succeeding. And they do, in fact.
Breakups that are amicable are simpler to
handle. One finds it simpler to forgive and does not really care whether the
other party is elected a president. A
bitter breakup is something entirely else.
After successfully navigating the
post-breakup blues, people frequently emerge stronger, wiser, and more cautious
about their actions in the choppy waters of relationships. When your lover
takes you for granted, it is never good.
Someone who disregards your commitment and is
never sorry when caught deserves to be abandoned as soon as possible. But,
ladies always harbor the hopeless optimism that he'll change. By the time they
realize they have been duped, they are always angry yet eager to continue with
a strong desire to criticize their partner who has now become their tormentor.
There is always a party being walked out on
in a breakup. When the offender thinks there is nothing to worry about, the
offended person thinks the grounds are valid. Women in particular have a
tendency to stay in relationships that truly take advantage of them.
Males are just as likely to remain in partnerships
that impede growth. Men can love women with their hearts, not their tongues or
their underwear, in contrast to the widely held yet gravely incorrect belief.
Women can now mess someone up just as well as males. After the breakup is
inevitable, either partner will yearn for the other to suffer once more.
People are inspired to approach life with
newfound fervor by the animosity and blatant contempt that they have for one
another. Moving on with your life as if they never existed is the sweetest form
of retaliation you can give your ex. After a breakup, some people plan ways to
exact revenge. Nonetheless, it is usually always ineffective.
Others are capable of forgiving and moving
on. They have success in their subsequent love lives. They at least find a
partner who values them. someone who shows them love and dedication in return.
It's never pleasant when the ex finds out about it. To your annoyance, someone
you disregarded and assumed couldn't possibly be loved or didn't deserve any
better treatment ends up getting lucky. The resentful party appears to be
bouncing around from poor relationships to bad relationships in the meantime.
Both professionally and academically, they
appear to be progressing fairly well. It appears that the painful breakup was
sufficient to bring out the scholar in them again. As a result, they pursue
their MBAs or receive job promotions that they may have missed while they were
intoxicated by their love or infatuation. They appear to be everywhere you look
if they are celebrities or politicians who enjoy the limelight. Your dislike or
contempt is enhanced by the fact that you are intimately familiar with them.
It's usually a good idea to show respect and
etiquette to the people we care about. Guys are always able to betray whatever
trust that has been placed in them. And women can no longer be trusted,
unfortunately.
While your ex is doing well, it is best to
avoid them. Normally, this is not the time to exact revenge. It is not the
right time to start threatening to reveal your relationship's dirty little
secrets. There is nothing more pointless. both repugnant and absurd.
I recently read Oluremi Obasanjo's
autobiography, Bitter-Sweet, and couldn't help but notice how she tried in vain
to smear Olusegun Obasanjo. I wonder if she was successful in achieving her
objective, given that she was rightfully resentful of his wife-battering
tendencies and his voracious sexual hunger. Even though the indications were so
blatantly conveyed from the start, if anything, it served to highlight her
resistance to leaving. Ultimately, she is the loser in my eyes.
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